Cato the Elder was a Roman senator who is usually remembered as the preeminent advocate for traditional values in ancient Rome. He is best known for ending many of his speeches in the senate by saying “Furthermore, Carthage must be destroyed,” even if he had been speaking on a different topic, as a way of pressing for further military action against Carthage following that city’s defeat in the Second Punic War. Several other sayings attributed to Cato have survived, two of which are favorites in online misogynist communities such as those that Donna Zuckerberg has described in her book Not All Dead White Men: Classics and Misogyny in the Digital Age. One quoted in Plutarch’s Life of Cato criticizes Romans for their supposed subservience to women: “All mankind rules its women, and we rule all mankind, but our women rule us.” In another, quoted from Livy’s history of Rome, Cato calls woman “a violent and uncontrolled animal.”
Both quotes were posted in an online forum for discussing the military strategy video game “Total War: Rome II” amid a coordinated effort by misogynist gamers to damage the reputation of the game because, they claimed, updates to the game had increased the frequency with which armies were led by female generals. Many players demanded that “historical accuracy” be observed in the game. Given that the existence of female generals in antiquity is well-documented and that, as a representative of the game developer pointed out, it is possible for users to modify (“mod”) the game so that there are no female generals (indeed modding is a favorite tool hate groups), calls for “accuracy” are transparently a cover for misogyny. The user who posted Cato’s complaint that “all mankind rules its women, and we rule all mankind, but our women rule us” wanted an ancient Roman quote that would make his view that women should not occupy positions of power seem like a “historically accurate” one. He was apparently unaware that Plutarch notes that Cato was parapharasing the Greek general Themistocles when he said this, and that Themistocles, according to Plutarch, originally said it “jestingly” concerning his wife’s relationship with his son.
Other participants in the forum make clear that it is misogyny, not historical accuracy or precedent, that lies behind the invocation of Cato. One of the first commenters responded with nothing more than a Snoop Dogg lyric “bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks” (the original poster later marked this “the answer to their question”). Another described examples of women generals from antiquity as “females thrust into positions of power that most of them could not handle and they were beaten by the Roman Patriarchy.” This is hatred of women, not concern for history. Any appreciation for Greco-Roman antiquity worthy of the name will recognize that we should strive to move beyond the failings of the past rather than laboring to emulate everything that’s been left to us. At least one of the commenters in this forum understood this, pointing out the “general unpleasantness” of Cato, who “also wrote a [treatise] about how to properly exploit slaves to increase agricultural output.” This commenter also puts his or her finger on the contradiction at the core of the original poster’s use of Cato: “Isn’t the fact [Cato] worried about it proof enough that women did indeed play a political role?”
No such variety of viewpoints can be found in a series of Reddit threads within the misogynist “Men Going Their Own Way” (MGTOW) community. These threads have titles like “Cato the Elder Knew What’s Up 2000 Years Ago (Regarding Women and Equality)”, “Knowledge from our Betters”, and, simply, “A Quote by the Roman Senator Cato the Elder”. All of these invoke the second quote from the video games forum, a basically accurate paraphrase of a speech reported by the Roman historian Livy in which Cato calls woman “a violent and uncontrolled animal” that needs a “tight rein” and warns his audience that “if you allow them to achieve complete equality with men…they will be your masters.” According to Livy, Cato’s speech was given for a specific political purpose, to support the Oppian Law, which barred women from riding in horse and carriages, wearing colored clothing, and owning more than half an ounce of gold. However, the commenters in the MGTOW reddit threads understand it in a much more general way, as support for all aspects of their hateful attitudes toward women: that women are ruled by base, irrational desires, that they are dangerous and need to be controlled, and that as things stand they have too much, undeserved, power over men.
Here is a sampling of the ways that commenters found agreement between Cato’s misogyny and theirs:
- “They are not men. They want what they perceive as man’s power, they lust after it like we lust after ass. Their hearts are filled with avarice, guile, and treachery all masked by grace, beauty, and tears. It’s all bullshit. All of it.”
- “In no way are they equal to a man. They are good for sex and helping out in a subservient role. As a man, one would think they’d be filled with gratitude for all the ‘gifts’ they receive from men. But no, they can only endeavor towards a goal of enslaving their benefactors.”
- “I would have saved myself so much pain if this fucking western society would not have conditioned me to look at women as equals.”
- “I think what my man Cato was saying, is that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. It would’ve been better to have sacrificed a small amount of our freedom toward reining women in the past; but because we didn’t, we’re paying the price with many more of our freedoms today.”
- “They are not ‘trying’ to be our masters. On a global scale, women are masters over men. I feel for you if you do not see this.”
- “Having a daughter taught me that one real quick. They lie like trees breathe. Effortlessly and nonstop.”
- “Enough reining in and controlling women. It is time to replace them with technology. Also, all the blue pilled simps supporting women must be eliminated.”
Maybe it’s time to stop celebrating Cato as one of the "great men" of history and to see him for what he was
As Donna Zuckerberg has argued, misogynists online see themselves as heirs to prestigious ancient thinkers who articulated misogynist views. Accordingly many commenters add additional ancient evidence that they believe gives legitimacy to their hatred of women.
- One post complements the quotation from Cato with an unsourced social history of the ancient Roman family that claims that “in the Roman empire, kids were only considered to need their mother more until age 3 or 4, when breastfeeding and nurturing were no longer important. After that, fathers would gain custody of their children, if any divorce. The Romans knew that children raised by their fathers were better equipped later in life. For children of conquered people though, it was the opposite, The mother would get custody. The Romans knew that single mothers raise slaves who won’t revolt or question authority.”
- One commenter reformulates Cato’s most famous saying to fit the forums’ hateful politics: “Carthago DELENDA est!!! Feminism is Carthage and it MUST be destroyed!!”
- Another introduces a quote from the Greek poet Hesiod intended to illustrate women’s self-interested avarice: “Don’t let a woman, wiggling her behind, flattering and coaxing, take you in; she is after your barn.” Another responds, “WHAT THE HELL…they know ‘twerking’ back in B.C. times.”
- Yet another quotes the early Christian writer Tertullian as saying “a woman is a temple built upon a sewer” with the explanation “a Temple is beautiful on the outside and shines with the light. However, once you enter in, or see what the inside of the temple is, it smells like piss and shit and/or just stinks. Pretty on the outside, rotten on the inside.” This quote appears nowhere in Tertullian’s works, and is elsewhere variously attributed to Jerome, Boethius, and Clement of Alexandria. In the 12th century William of Auvergne introduces a version of the quote by saying simply “someone said” (quidam dixit); it is also found in the Policraticus of John of Salisbury, an advice manual which collected various aphorisms from ancient and late antique writers.
- The closest thing to a dissenting view can be found in a comment that claims, like other misogynists Pharos has documented, that ancient civilizations respected women too much: “Its [sic] fucked how men have been descending since ancient times. Although, the Spartans believed that a woman dying in childbirth was equivalent to a man dying in battle. Have to say i lost some respect for their civilisation after finding that out.” Many scholarly sources report this but these are based on an interpretation of one of Plutarch’s lives that more likely says that Spartans honored women who died while performing religious rituals equally to fallen soldiers.
Given that misogyny has been described as “a gateway into the white supremacist world” that is itself deeply misogynist, it is unsurprising to find racism and anti-Semitism appearing in these reddit threads as well.
- One commenter brings up a misogynist version of the white supremacist fear of “white genocide” by stating that “the end goal is elimination of Men via mass murder.” To this another user responded, “not just men but a certain type of men plus their women,” which was answered in turn with “you mean White Men and White Women? Or at least make sure the White Women are used to breed with other, darker racial skin tones to make little Kalergi babies? And make sure to kill off the White Men in specific? Yep.”
- Another commenter calls it “tragic” that even though “the Romans created a weapon so deadly to fight the Jews, it backfired on them…” When another user asked what “weapon” he has in mind, the original poster replied “if I talk about it here, it will offend all the Christians here and I don’t feel like starting that shit.” Beside the obvious anti-Semitism in treating Jewish people as an enemy of the state he may be referring to the movement within white supremacy that rejects Christianity as a Jewish plot.
- Another thread developed into a debate about whether Christianity is to blame for the undeserved power that, according to MGTOW communities, contemporary society grants to women. In the course of this thread one commenter invokes the common white supremacist conspiracy theory that Jewish people control the world: “I believe in many conspiracy theories and most of them feature jews as the villains,” writes this commenter, referring to “the powers that be that want to control the world and weaken the population so that it is easy to control.”
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